I spent my life believing that doing the right thing would matter to the people and institutions responsible for doing their part. Experience taught me otherwise.
My background spans more than 20 years in crisis communications, politics, business leadership and organizational strategy. I understand how institutions manage their reputations and how easily the public narrative can become more important than reality.
I escaped domestic violence in 2024 and I've spent every moment since fighting to survive. I've challenged institutions, stood by others in crisis, and refused to accept a narrative in place of the truth. And I'm fed up. Fucking tired, more like it.
I founded Survivor Truth Foundation because survivors deserve more than another awareness campaign telling the world that abuse is bad. And if I'm this fed up with the obvious, I know others are, too.
STF puts that scrutiny into practice. We support survivors while building a public record of their experiences and examining institutional responses. We are here to ask the questions that matter and follow the record wherever it leads.
-Why are protection orders REALLY not enforced?
-What percentage of sexual assault charges are ACTUALLY prosecuted?
-Where along the line are LGBTQ victims turned away because of thier sexuality?
-Where do male victims feel safest reporting without social backlash?
-Why are children's accounts dismissed in court proceedings?
I WANNA KNOW!
My professional background is how I approach this work, but my lived experience is why I refuse to treat it as just a problem. After my escape, I reported my experience and spent a year in court as the District Attorney brought multiple charges against my abuser. Everyday then and since has been a battle to survive so I became the hero I needed when I didn't have one.
I've built a community where other survivors can become that person for themselves, without having to stand alone. STF is for the people who are done with silence and being polite. You do not need my permission to find your voice but if this is your sign to be empowered, fuck yeah!
I built Survivor Truth Foundation because I refuse to let the systems that failed me have the final word. If you are ready to stop waiting for the hero you needed, this is your invitation to become that person. Stand with us. Your experience belongs in the record, and your voice belongs in this community.